The Black Friday Plan

The National Foundation for Credit Counseling Services doesn’t want to see Americans pile on more debt than they can or should reasonably handle during the holidays. So they distributed a list of tips to take buyer’s remorse out of the high holiday shopping season. If nothing else, I think black moms, and moms everywhere, ought to at least try to practice good money management. Take a look before you head out:

“It is important for consumers to shop with their head, not their heart,” said Gail Cunningham, spokesperson for the NFCC.  “Preparing in advance will help you stick to your budget, in spite of the decorations, carols and Santa himself beckoning you to spend.”

  • Beware of special credit card offers – Issuers are tempting consumers by offering incentives such as no interest balance transfers, extra perks by meeting certain spending levels, and increased cash back in specified categories.  However, no deal is a good deal if you can’t afford it.  Responsible shoppers will commit to spending no more than what they can repay in full when the bill arrives, regardless of how many bonuses are tacked on.
  • Know what you currently owe – Review all existing debt obligations, tallying what you’ve already spent and committed to repay.  This reality check may put a temporary damper on your holiday mood, but that’s better than digging the financial hole even deeper.
  • Create a plan – Knowing who you’re shopping for, what items you hope to find, and most importantly, how much you intend to spend is critical to a successful shopping day.  Commit in advance to stick to your plan, and enlist an accountability partner if necessary, as it is very easy to be caught up in the excitement of the moment and get off course.
  • Find the best deals at home – Shop from home before heading for the stores.  Compare prices online, as well as local circulars for sales in your area.  Be aware of time restrictions, as some prices may only apply during certain time periods throughout the day.  Once the actual shopping begins, going directly to the store which has your item at a good price will save you time, gas, money and frustration.
  • Remove all unnecessary cards from your wallet – Spreading purchases across multiple cards makes you feel as though you’re charging less and can trick you into overspending.  Designate one card for holiday spending, and remove all others from your wallet.  This will not only help you stay within your budget, but will also lessen the damage in case of loss or theft.



Occupy Small Businesses


Let’s call this food vendor “Chris,” because although I don’t know his real name, we can be sure that he is a real person, a regular Joe with concerns that we can all relate to. You can count him among the 99%, the workers and professionals who keep the country turning and whose noble interests are represented by the ‘Occupy Wall Street’ protesters.

I love the breakfast sandwiches that he and his assistant whip up in the mornings. The variations on bacon egg and cheese sustained me in the mornings my pregnancy with Baby and the first six months after.

But these days, it’s really hard to get to his food truck, because he’s located right on the edge of Zuccotti Park in Manhattan, and his business abuts the Occupy Wall Street encampment.

I can’t get to his truck on my morning commutes, and apparently I’m among the regular customers driven away by the noise, crowding and smell of the protesters within arm’s reach.

So his business is suffering, and he’s losing money because the very people who claim to have his best interests at heart. I want this guy to succeed and live a comfortable life, and I want the protesters to be heard. But surely they should be itching tents some place where their signs, chants and all that are likely to have more impact. How about occupying the Beltway?


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